WE LIVE IN A FAST PACED WORLD, WHERE WE OFTEN FEEL WE DON’T HAVE TIME TO BREATH.

A fast paced life means a life of action and constant activity! One where you get to run from one amazing event to the next.

One minute you are at work, producing for the world, then you are running to a lunch with your partner and you talk about how amazing the day is, then, after the scheduled hour it is right back to run to work to an important meeting. Afterwards you run back home so you are still able to enjoy time with your family.

That is what a fast paced life means. It is not like some people say ‘A life without time for others’, but instead a life that simply has a lot going on.

On Monday 25^thMarch I reached the ripe old age of 50. I cannot believe how quickly this has happened, seems like only yesterday I was celebrating my 21^st, (not that I can remember much from that evening, but that is another story……..). 

Turning 50 has actually been a joy, and I certainly do not feel any different. The body is not in too bad shape and my mind is functioning well, and as my darling wife says I still think and act like a 21 year old. 

We often judge what people should or should not do because of age, yet in the Bible we see how God used many people in very old age.

CVM are renowned for their famous Top 10`s, so how about the 10 oldest people from the bible.

2019, a new year ahead, a year of hope, a year of new beginnings, a year with so much potential. People often look ahead to another year and say, ‘a new year will be a new me’.

Many of us will have or will be doing tax returns before the end of January, this was my first one for being self-employed and I did the return online, under the self-assessment.

Self-assessment is what we all seem to do at the start of another year, we assess what we eat, what we do for a career, relationships, family life etc.

Life goes by so quickly, next year I will be a young 50 year old, I can’t actually believe this and you know what, I’m finding it hard to accept.
I’ve been thinking a lot about the word ‘legacy’. A legacy is something you leave behind and for the most part in Western society it’s about money, house, assets etc.

Just a couple of weeks back, my youngest daughter Rachel played in the Scottish Cup semi final with her football team and they managed to win. So now we have a final to look forward too! So it’s a story and achievement that she will be able to pass onto her own kids and grandchildren.
For me as a Dad, I hope to pass on a house and some money to help my children on their own journey, but the most important Legacy I will leave, will be faith. Something that is eternal and not just temporal.
The world we live in is consumed by ownership and we strive for more things, we are a consuming society, we never seem to be satisfied.
The verse in the Bible that speaks to this is Matthew 6 v 21 ‘For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also’.

This is my first blog, so please be patient as I navigate my way through this new skill! Writing a blog is a great way to share our journeys in life and to keep folks informed on what’s going on, the good and the not so good!
I am the father of 5 beautiful kids and for this I am truly blessed, they are all so different and totally unique. Let me tell you a bit about them …

Firstly my gorgeous wife Joanne, who is the cornerstone of our family, she is simply a rock and a wonderful mother.
Katie is the eldest child, who keeps reminding us that she is the Law in the household. The reason she says this is that she is a Police Officer. Katie wanted to join the Police from a young age, so for her to achieve her dream makes us very proud as parents.
Then comes Hannah who is a hairdresser and loves to be glamorous. She is a beautiful girl both inside and out. Talented in whatever she does she has the ability to put people at ease then work her magic and they leave feeling amazing.  She is so much fun to be around and has the most amazing singing voice.
Daughter number 3 is Rebecca, or Becks, who wants to become a firefighter. A gifted person who brings laughter into our lives, she has just got her exam results and did very well.  She is going into 5th year, so hoping she does well in her Highers.
Then comes Rachel, daughter number 4 (yup, 4 daughters), who is so different to her older sisters. She loves her sport and is a gifted football player playing for Donside Girls. She also loves music and plays the drums, and has a most amazing singing voice, but keeps this firmly under wraps.
Finally there is Samuel, the boy in the household. He is a warrior in every way. Courageous, (well he has to be with 4 older sisters) and intelligent, Samuel loves his football and is a promising young player. Joanne and I say the intelligence must have skipped a generation …..
So, where is all this going? Firstly I love my wife, she is one amazing lady and I am so thankful that she is my soul partner.
Then secondly my kids are all wonderful, and I will give my all for them until the day I leave this world, and here is the point … I have the father`s heart. Like me when I was young, my kids will (and have already!), made some crazy choices in their young lives. I made so many crazy choices, and at the age of 48 will go on and make many more not so wise choices. My Dad was certainly not perfect, but he loved me and in his own way forgave those silly choices of youth.
In the Bible there is the parable of the lost (or prodigal) son. It is found in Luke chapter 15, verses 11-32. The main character in the parable, the forgiving father, whose character remains constant throughout the story, is a picture of God. In telling the story, Jesus identifies Himself with God in His loving attitude to the lost. The younger son symbolizes the lost (the tax collectors and sinners of that day, Luke 15:1), and the elder brother represents the self-righteous (the Pharisees and teachers of the law of that day, Luke 15:2). The major theme of this parable seems not to be so much the conversion of the sinner, as in the previous two parables of Luke 15, but rather the restoration of a believer into fellowship with the Father. In the first two parables, the owner went out to look for what was lost (Luke 15:1-10), whereas in this story the father waits and watches eagerly for his son’s return. We see a progression through the three parables from the relationship of one in a hundred (Luke 15:1-7), to one in ten (Luke 15:8-10), to one in one (Luke 15:11-32), demonstrating God’s love for each individual and His personal attentiveness towards all humanity. We see in this story the graciousness of the father overshadowing the sinfulness of the son, as it is the memory of the father’s goodness that brings the prodigal son to repentance (Romans 2:4).
What I love about this parable is the heart of the Father, that he loved his youngest son unconditionally, when he saw his son in the distance, he ran to him, to embrace him and give total forgiveness.
God is our Father and his love for us is beyond our human minds, it’s what is called perfect love, the Greek word is Agape.
This word agape is often translated “love” in the New Testament. How is “agape love” different from other types of love? The essence of agape love is goodwill, benevolence, and willful delight in the object of love. Unlike our English word love, agape is not used in the New Testament to refer to romantic or sexual love. Nor does it refer to close friendship or brotherly love, for which the Greek word philia is used. Agape love involves faithfulness, commitment, and an act of the will. It is distinguished from the other types of love by its lofty moral nature and strong character. Agape love is beautifully described in 1 Corinthians 13.
So my first Blog is about the Father`s heart, for me as a Father, I love my kids, and will always be there for them but I am not perfect and will make mistakes.
But my Heavenly Father is agape love, his love is perfect – no mistakes, and that is why he sent his only son, Jesus into the world, that we could see perfect love in action.

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